Misunderstood About Introvert, Extrovert, And Ambivert

Hi guys, Im back. As the title, I wanna tell you guys about my opinion about introvert, extrovert, and ambivert.

You must have heard this:

The characteristics of an introvert are quiet, uncomfortable in crowds, creative, comfortable alone, hard to express what you think, etc.

The characteristics of an extrovert are talk a lot, comfortable in the crowd, not creative, not comfortable alone, easy to express what he thinks, etc

The characteristics of an ambivert are a mix of introvert and extrovert characteristics. Sometimes an ambivert person talks a lot, sometimes quiet, sometimes comfortable in the crowd, sometimes uncomfortable.

Okay. But, have you heard that most people in this world are an ambivert? Im sure youve heard of it.

Or, have you heard that no one in the world is pure introverted or pure extroverted? Because there is no one who does not want to socialize or cannot be alone.

So, whats the conclusion? The point is, everyone is an ambivert! Then what is the use of grouping introvert and extrovert characteristics, while everyone is an ambivert?

Are you confused? Then what are the true facts?

I found this picture on the internet.

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The picture displays that there is a personality scale. If there is only an ambivert personality in this world, it means that there must also be an ambivert who tends to be introverted or an ambivert who tends to be extroverted because it is impossible for all ambivert people who are a mixture of pure introvert and extrovert.

Okay, the argument seems valid. Already finished? Not yet!

Have you ever thought that there are people whose energy can be drained out when in a crowd? The person can restore lost energy by being alone, reading a book, being in a quiet place, and so on.

Have you ever thought that there are people whose energies can be drained out when in silence? That person can restore lost energy by hanging out with friends, attending an event where there are many people, a lot of talk, and so on.

If the fact is true, then the argument about introverts and extroverts are only references to restore energy is more reasonable. 

There are many great moderators who claim to be alone.

There are many quiet people who like to be in a crowd.

There are many public speakers who like the silence of nature.

There are many quiet people who have lots of friends.

We can conclude that introverts and extroverts exist, but only as a reference for recovering energy when the energy is exhausted. You have to know your personality, will your energy be full if you are in a crowd or in silence?

If your energy is full when in a crowded place, then whatever your profession is quiet, you can return to a crowded place to recover your lost energy.

if your energy is full when in a place of silence, then no matter how noisy your profession is, you can return to a place of silence to restore your lost energy.

Its important to clear up any misconceptions about personality. I wrote this blog so that we no longer misunderstand how to know ourselves. Very bad if we dont know how to recover the lost energy, our performance may decrease.

Okay guys. That’s all. Thanks guys and see ya!